By +Jeanne Takenaka @JeanneTakenaka
My Five Minute Friday prompt this week is—PLAN. This largely unedited “rough draft” form of writing stretches this perfectionist, in the best of ways. I write for five minutes on a given topic. If you’re interested in learning more about 5-Minute Fridays, check out our hostess, Kate Motaung’s site. Or, click on the link at the bottom of this post. As you read my simpler Friday posts, I hope you’ll join in the conversation!
I’m a girl who makes her plan and sticks to it. To the bloody death, no matter how hard it is.
But what is a planner-girl to do when life refuses to cooperate with her plan? When it takes unexpected turns?
When we tried to have a baby, I had my timeline, my plan, of when to start, when we’d get pregnant and that I’d have my first baby by the time I turned thirty-one.
God had other plans.
What is a mom to do when she has a plan of teaching her children responsibility? She trains them, encourages them, gives them opportunities to show they can be trusted. . .
. . . and they fall far short of the expectations.
Yes, this is my question now. Today has been a rough day in the Takenaka household. Both boys fell down badly in things I trusted them with. My plans for giving them more independence?
Just went out the window. At least for a little while.
When God allows plans to be thwarted, what is a planner-girl to do?
I’m learning that I need to work through my disappointment. Which sometimes looks a wee-bit like frustration and a short temper. Sorry, weak mom on board here.
But then, I’m learning to let go of my plan. Forgive these precious boys of mine. Forgive the people in my life whose plans contradicted mine, and were victorious.
I’m learning to look to the Lord once again, and relinquish my plans, and ask for His. When I’m still enough before Him, I can see that His plans really are the best plans. For me and for everyone.
If I surrender my will to His? That’s when the best plans can take place in my life and the lives of those around me.
When I’m surrendered to His plans, beauty, rather than bitterness, emerges from the disappointment. And I want others to see Jesus’ beauty in me. Not my bitter flesh. It’s an ugly sight.
What about you? How do you react when your plans go awry? How do you bend to manage the change in plans?
Check out Kate Motaung’s Five Minute Friday post on Plans.